‘The Big Sick’ has been touted as the best rom-com film in ages, and of course that’s bound to get my attention. And I do agree that it is a great film – funny, melancholy, self-assured. But I would think that by labeling it as just a romantic comedy cuts its strength. I think the movie is a lot more than that: an exploration of interracial relationships, a comment on arranged marriages, even a paean to modern day stand up comic struggles. And sure, it has strong aspects of romantic comedy-isms, but as merely one, it falls short.
Loosely based on their life, Kumail Nunjani (who also stars as the Kumail character) and his wife Emily Gordon wrote the screenplay, and they even named the characters Kumail and Emily. They meet one night at a comedy club, and then we get that montage of two people falling in love. Until they get faced with conflicts stemming from their interracial relationship and they break up. Emily then gets sick and Kumail, along with Emily’s parents, goes through this ordeal together. Zoe Kazan plays Emily, and she exudes big charm as we get to know her, and their relationship and we fall in love with them instantly. Director Michael Showalter has a great feel for characters and relationships (he directed the great ‘Hello My Name Is Doris’) and we feel for and with these characters instantly. Holly Hunter and Ray Romano, playing Emily’s parents are God gifts – I never ever liked Romano before, and here he is just perfection. Still, i wish that the Judd Apatow influence isn’t here – sometimes the proceedings go directly to the toilet – and yes I know that’s what will give this film widespread appeal, but I still feel subtlety is more romantic . But that’s not to take away from the film – this is a wonderful modern film that tells the story of today’s America – I doubt a Trump supporter can go with it’s diversity, but the fact that this film exists is a cause for celebration.